Last night was the Spring Banquet...the homeschool version of prom. It was my first time to go, and the only reason I went is because my best friend is graduating this year and I wanted to support her. It was an interesting evening.
We all got dressed up and headed out to this beautiful place called The Villa. It is a lovely spot, especially out of doors. They have nice gardens and fountains among other things.
I am no dancer (never could master that art :P), and so after dinner when the dancing began, I merely stood by the back wall. My best friend's cousin volunteered me to dance with him, but after that I slipped outside to the back to take a walk in the gardens.
The night was beautiful: stars overhead with whisps of clouds trailing here and there, lovely gardens, and a cool night breeze. I felt lonely, but in a different way than simple loneliness. I wished that my future husband could be there...that I could dance with him, and that he wouldn't care that I wasn't adept at the art. That I could spend the evening with him as my partner. I prayed out there, asking God to guide my future husband: make him a strong spiritual leader, someone that cares more for God than he does me, a man that will always treasure me and never leave me for another. It felt good, and afterwards I felt a little better.
I went back inside and stood agaisnt the wall once more, watching my friend dance. A young man came up and recognized me from the play I was in not long ago. He began talking a great deal, and asking me lots of questions. It was rather obvious to me that I had an admirer on my hands. After a bit I excused myself from his presence to get a drink.
Later, I stood talking to a friend, who is also one of my swords instructors. Mr. Admirer showed up again, and sort of looked over my friend (who is about 4 years older than me and has absolutely nothing for me), which was rather amusing. After a few words with my friend (I'll call him Ben), Mr. Admirer walked up to me and offered me the next dance. I looked at Ben with a 'please, save me!' expression, but after getting no help from him, agreed to dance with Mr. Admirer. So, off to the dance floor I went.
It turns out that Mr. Admirer had just as much dancing knowledge as I did. He practically drug me across the floor, hopping here and there like a wild man. I had to do something, so I forced myself into the lead and led him in the dance. After that things went a little smoother. :D
There was a line dance after that, so there was no need for a partner. But he wanted to dance partner-style. I fell in line, and he eventually figured out that this dance was different. After this dance he was ready for more, but I said that I had had enough for the moment, thanked him, and left.
I sought freedom out of doors, and talked with another graduating friend of mine (we'll call her Kristen). After a few scattered chats with people, the dance ended, and we all piled up to go to Ben's house (we all meaning us swords peeps). Once there, I had loads of fun. There was funny dancing, Disney sing-a-longs, etc. That was most entertaining.
I had fun last night, and the humorous events that took place will stand out in my mind for a long time to come. :D :D
14 comments:
I often do that...pray for my future partner.
Funny story. Must have been a really good acting job you did :D
So you are home-schooled also? That's awesome!
It must have been...lol
Yes, indeed! I am homeschooled and quite proud of the fact.
Homeschooling rocks! It is so much better than going to public schools and having your mind filled with junk and not learning much.
Hey Flinn,
Just a note to say that on Friday, 10th, my blog address is changing to:
countercultural-blog[dot]blogspot[dot]com
~Elliot
Thanks for the info!
Why is everyone else homeschooled and not me? If I ever raise a family, I'm going to homeschool my kids.
Cool thoughts, Flinn. I think it's also important coming from a guy's view of: What does my future wife want from me?
~Elliot
Araken, don't worry, I'm not homeschooled either! But I'm sure it would be better than the fake environment they create for you in public schools. <_<
For whatever reason, at this point, I just can't picture myself ever getting married. Of course, that won't stop me from being the best guy I can be.
:)Ian(:
I used to be homeschooled, now I'm not, though. It sounds really fun. ^^ Glad you had a nice time.
SA
Ian- Amen!
I have a hard time with home school dances, too. Here, we have this rule that if someone asks you to dance you have to agree, and you're basically expected to dance nearly every time. So from a guy's perspective, you have to ask a girl to dance, but you never know if she really does want to or if she's screaming "No, no, please no!" inside.
It's kind of an awkward situation. But it's funny to think about what might be going through everyone's mind as they dance while smiling pleasantly at each other. Everyone I know seems to love the dances, so I'm glad they get to do something they enjoy.
lol
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